After the disastrous experience I had with Zohan, I felt like it left a bad taste in my mouth. It’ll take time before I start dating again. I feel like I lost confidence in myself as far as trusting people… men in particular.
How can I be so
blind and gullible?! STOP!!! I’m back in this cycle of being harsh to myself. That is not my affirmation. It’s not my fault that there are people who are good at being so fake and manipulative… who just want to take advantage of others. Moving forward, I just have to be smarter and trust my gut.
Around the time we were seeing each other the Universe sent me messages…. plenty actually. But I chose not to listen. I was so drawn to him for some reason. (I wrote about it in Puppet Master.) Then the Universe started throwing bricks… still I was back and forth. Then the Universe intervened one day. Abruptly, if I may say. Call it Divine intervention. What a relief it was for me. You have no idea. I was totally saved by the bell. Things could’ve made a turn for the worse for me.
Today I turn a new leaf. The Universe sent me a new message thru Abraham Hicks “Let your soul mate in: Being true to yourself“. The message… Nothing is happening to you, it is all invited by you. You invited them through your ATTENTION to them. Now you are aware that you are the “Inviter‘ of these things that happen to you. Next move is for you to go on a rampage of SELECTIVE SIFTING that would say “I’m going to find my 10 favorite things about this person/thing/situation that I find myself focused on”. For example, if you ponder on a lover/ relationship, find 10 fave things about that person then you’ll just focus on things that are positive. This will set the TONE so that only things like your favorite things will come into your vibrational range.
Un peu, beaucoup, aveuglément! (BLIND DATE)
Blind Date (French title: Un peu, beaucoup, aveuglément) is a 2015 French romantic comedy film directed by and starring Clovis Cornillac. The film also stars Mélanie Bernier, Lilou Fogli and Philippe Duquesne. It won the audience award at the 19th annual COLCOA French Film Festival in Los Angeles and the Best First Film award at the 2015 Cabourg Film Festival. SOURCE: Wiki
Today, I watched this movie. No, I still haven’t changed my mind about dating anytime soon… though I would be open to a blind date when the time comes. However, I thought, these two people were too scared to go find love but they found each other though separated by a wall. It was pretty odd but it was perfect in their own way. Don’t they say the movies is a reflection of real life?
Now that I am in a state of increased awareness, I’ll use that to my advantage. I’ll be more conscious of the thoughts that occupy my mind and make a more conscious decision to focus on the 10 favorite things about people or situations so I can always set the tone and keep it that way.
Grosses bises ♥ Etoile